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What Does Letting Go and Letting God Mean?

 




Loving a drug addict can be exhausting. Constantly worrying if he or she is getting high, getting into arguments when it happens, and all of the things that go along with it can wear you down. Let's not even talk about the resentment, fear and anger that go with the territory. Have you had enough? Do you feel like giving up but you don't because you still love this person? Letting Go and Letting God is a recovery concept that allows a person to stop trying to fix it and not feel guilty about it. It is not for everyone, but some find it naturally helpful.

What it means in practical terms: You may have been drained financially from paying your addicted loved one's bills. You’ve been badgered for cash and guilt-tripped into taking care of his or her children financially. Letting Go and Letting God means is a way of giving yourself permission to cut off the money and let God or your higher power lead the way.

Your emotional freedom: The emotional aspect of loving a drug addict is huge. The whole premise of Letting Go and Letting God is that you resolve to no longer dwell on your loved one's addiction. Instead, you are going to let God or your higher power handle whatever comes along. This means you now have time to meet up with friends, pursue that hobby you have been ignoring, read a good book, or any of the hundreds of things that took a backseat when the drug use chaos began. Letting Go and Letting God isn't just saying the words, it is a heartfelt belief that a higher power is in charge. Since you are not in charge, there is no point in trying to be. Some people are able to let go more easily through this recovery concept, Letting Go and Letting God.

Giving up control: The hard part is no longer trying to control the addict. Every time you double-check a story about where he or she has been, you are trying to control the addict. When you resort to bribery (saying, for example: If you go to five meetings I will give you money), you are trying to control the addict. Threats that are not real are another form of trying to control the addict (saying, for example: I will have you arrested I think you are high). The underlying foundation of Letting Go and Letting God is realizing that you never really had control of your loved one. If you could control that person or the situation, he or she would have stopped using long ago. So the concept Letting Go and Letting God gives a person permission to stop trying to control everything. You can still love the addict, but you are no longer trying to micromanage his or her life with the hope that the drug use will stop because of your actions. And you are at peace with your decision.







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